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Sorry to bust in, but your problem sounds like Chi Omega's problem of their secrets being on an internet site. And a general problem in greek life (for example, a former Pi Kapp who was really upset with his being booted has shown me their handshake). It sucks, because that's kind of the point of BEING in different fraternities/sororities in the first place... the rituals bind us together. And once it slips, then it's all out. A woman once said at a meeting of just greeks, "you know we all have the same basic initiation, we all [I won't reveal what followed]". We kind of laughed, because half of what she said was true, and half wasn't, so she revealed something of her own sorority's rituals, while actually making a point about being greek. And I would've been disappointed if I knew my sorority's secrets before initiation, anyway, because that's what makes initiation so special.
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