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Originally Posted by Missouri Ivy
Would you walk into any other group full of people you've never met or only talked to for a few minutes and expect to feel completely at home? Relationships take time to develop. Relax and get a good night's sleep. It can be easy to second guess yourself, but had you dropped, there's no guarantee you'd have gotten a bid from the colony, or that any groups would be doing informal this spring. Starting tomorrow, make it your mission to start getting to know your new sisters. The best way to tamp down those thoughts of the "grass being greener" is to keep busy and appreciate what you already have. Congratulations on your bid. I hope you'll have a great time in your chapter.
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I agree with this 100% I think during the excitement and stress and craziness of recruitment, with all of its pageantry, many PNMs forget that sororities do not mean instant best friends. Groups are complicated and it takes time and hard work just like any relationship.
But I have to tell you girl, being part of a sisterhood is the most amazing feeling in the world. Once you're in (initiated, if you choose to stay that is), it's something I can't even describe.