The way that I see it is that you have to find the best place in which you fit in. It may take at least a semester to find that place, and it may not be a fraternity, but you need to give yourself time. If it happens to be with a fraternity make sure that it offers you 5 key things. Leadership, Scholarship, Growth, Graduation, and Investment. Yeah parties are great, but how does that prepare you for the real world. The purpose of fraternities are to build young men into men, men prepared to face the challenges of the outside world. Good luck in your search.
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