[33girl]

"Friends" don't tell you to do things that would have a potentially negative impact on you. I assume they are from the top tier fraternity that didn't bid you. Honestly, this just sounds like a "watch what a big man I am, I can get that hot chick at the bar to come over and talk to me and dump her boyfriend" scenario, only with all dudes. SHADY MCSHADERSON O'SHADY.

Stay with the fraternity you're in and get to know the active brothers and your pledge brothers better - you may seem a lot different on the surface but there is something that made them decide to bid you. I suspect you will end up having a lot better time in a mid-tier than you would if you're in a group where having connections is that make or break and you don't have them....do you want to be the eternal Seth Rogan in a house full of Bradley Coopers?