[DrPhil]

I agree, 33girl.

Don't be my Soror only if I behave as you want me to behave and as long as I never cross you. I have Sorors and friends who I love even when we get on each other's nerves or behave in a different manner than preferred. Except for certain deal breakers or if the negativity far exceeds the positivity, we appreciate and love each other. We tell each other when we have an issue with each other and, instead of disappearing from each other's lives, we are honest about needing "time off" from the relationship. We will pick back up in the relationship once the break is over. That is also why we're careful what we say and do during these breaks because if you say and do crazy things (during "time offs" or when you're mad) there is no going back to the sisterhood and friendship.