Thread: Needing advice
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Old 09-21-2013, 08:53 PM
DubaiSis DubaiSis is offline
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"she seems so busy and doesn't have the time to hang out" is one thing.
"stupid bitch never shows up at anything and I'm left here hanging." totally different. Work out, more or less, what you want to say, and edit it for care and clarity. You want help but I doubt you want to bash this girl. It's easy to be passive-aggressive or seem victim'y. Focus on the positive and the future, not the negative and the past. Learning how to ask for what you want is a skill that many of us wish we had learned earlier in life.
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