[33girl]

My junior year, we had a larger than usual pledge class that was VERY VERY VERY different than the then-current complexion of the chapter. No exaggeration that they changed things a lot. However, I think it got to the point that we all figured out how to find common ground.

This is the difference between guys and girls. If this situation would have happened to guys, they wouldn't have spent a second whining for a new rush or going to the Greek life director. They would have said "hey, we all seem to be on the same page here, let's turn this ship around." Guys know they make the organization, girls think the organization makes them.