[sigmagirl2000]

I'm thinking the OP is a kid. She didn't come here and stomp on the group after she had her initial whine, she said she is willing to join the group if they are interested in her. OP also seemed to think that the group may not want to change and might not want a bunch of new members who are different. I'd just like to put it out there to the OP and anyone else that the group invited her and others to pref. If they didn't potentially see her and these other women as sisters, they weren't forced to invite them. Any group will have a variety of people in it. Hey, maybe the OP could learn to like HP and Twilight if she was given a second chance!