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Originally Posted by jillianolivia
On a related note, I have a question for anyone with rush experience on either side. The guy that I am dating is a member of XYZ fraternity on campus. He has let me know that they get along very well with the Football team. I have met many of the men of XYZ and have become very good friends with quite a few of them. My question is whether or not to mention that I am friends with these men in order to make a personal connection that stands out. I am not interested in the Football team because my friends like them. I genuinely feel like I would get along amazingly with these girls. I would only ever bring up names of XYZ boys in order to let them see that I am socially in a similar place to where they are to try and build another extra connection during recruitment. Is this a good or bad idea? I have been told to stay away from mentioning boys at all but these aren't just boys I am dating, they are also my friends.
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Bad idea. You never know if the sister you are talking to just got dumped by an XYZ or whatever. If they bring it up, something like "We have a social with XYZ this month!" you can say "I know some of those guys, and they are great," but you should not bring it up first.