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Old 09-11-2013, 11:44 PM
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Originally Posted by lilabelle View Post
we are working to re-recruit the women we have lost so far
Funk dat. If they want to flounce, let 'em flounce. You will not do your campus reputation or your chapter's self-esteem any good by begging these girls to come back. Any time we "begged" a girl to pledge, she ended up being a POS sister.

Living well is the best revenge. Go after new pledges, set your sights HIGH and make those girls sorry that they were so stupid as to drop.

And are you guys the only sorority with the finance problem? If so, is it because your dues are appreciably higher than the other groups? If that's the case, re-evaluate and see where they can be cut. If it's national dues, knock your local dues down as far as you possibly can. But if every group's dues are around the same amount and you're the only group having women drop because "it's too expensive" - then you need to 1) start giving them an experience that's worth the $$ 2) stop bidding wishy-washy women. Don't mess with money issues. If they can't afford it, DON'T BID THEM. Trust me, it is not worth it.
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