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Old 09-11-2013, 07:04 PM
ASTalumna06 ASTalumna06 is offline
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Originally Posted by uwgreeeek View Post
So I go to UW as a freshman and i'm currently doing formal fall recruitment and it's not going as well as I hoped right now it's philantrophy day and I have two that I don't think I would accept a bid from and one that i'm ok with but not totally in love with so i'm not exactly sure whether I should drop and do informal or what. I really wanna be in a sorority so I don't want to drop completely but if there's anyone who can give me advice it would be appreciated!
There's no need for you to drop right now. Stick it out until the end of recruitment. You never know.. your opinion might change as the rounds go on.

How many chapters does your school have? Having three chapters is great, and to not have a connection with any of them is strange to me. Were you hoping to get a bid to a "more popular" chapter, and now you're upset that you no longer have them as an option? Are you really making an effort to get to know the sisters in the three chapters you have left? You don't have to answer here, but be honest with yourself.

Again, stick it out, and if you still aren't feeling it after pref, don't sign anything and try informal recruitment. Just be aware that the chapters taking members through informal might be the same ones that you currently have remaining.
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