Are you in high school or college? Who said you have to be a gofer for a fraternity? Noone can help you decide what sorority is best for you. You must do research on your own. Go to their national websites, read their books and talk to their members. Also it seems as if you have already decided on your choice. One word of advice: It is taboo to use a sororities colors, letters, motto,etc in your email, sign off unless you are a member. You better throw out the "pretty in pink" out of respect for a certain sorority.