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I totally agree with doing background checks, maybe not to the extent of hiring a PI, but I will do my own research.
A Personal Example-- My ex-boyfriend had me under the impression that he was a childless, 26 yr old grad of NYU. 'Ol boy was 22, had 2 kids, never made it out of the 9th grade, and at last count was hiding 7 other girlfriends. That was the end of that relationship, no explanations needed. Had I, the girlfriend of less than a month, not decided to check up on him, me and those 7 other girls would probably still be getting played for fools.
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