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Update....
Quite honestly I don't know what Lucy is going to do.
One minute I look on her facebook page and I see her with her new sisters in pictures and she is smiling and she seems happy. The next I'm getting a text message saying that a girl in her pledge class has dropped and that she still isn't sure if she is "feeling it". She also was concerned because her first payment was due today.
I kind of gave her "tough love".
I told her "you need to decide if you want to give it a try or not. It takes more than a week to get to know people. Plus you are held to your bid for a calendar year, which means you can't go through any type of recruitment until next fall. You need to think about those things you told me about sk at the beginning of recruitment. Remember those things you liked about them. But in the end you have to follow your heart".
I truly don't know what is going to happen. She hasn't responded to me. I hope I didn't hurt her feelings because that was never my intention. I've always been honest with her about recruitment and expectations. I'm not going to start sugar coating things for her now.
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