[DubaiSis]

You are absolutely allowed your opinions, and ranking and reputations on campus exist for a reason. The concern is you seem to be saying the right thing but then throwing in a few nuggets that seem to negate the good parts of what you're telling us.

To the extent that you have a choice, rush is a mutual selection process. Go ahead and describe your likes and dislikes for each chapter, and do keep that open mind as your invitations come around again. It sounds like you are realistic enough to know that you might see the Awesome Alphas as the best today, but maybe they don't see the same in you. So tomorrow the Best Betas are your new favorite. That's cool. It's how it SHOULD work, but those of us who have been around for awhile have heard it over and over that "I'm keeping an open mind" but what she means is "except for THAT chapter" and sometimes "but still, I am only going to worry about these 3 chapters because #1 is what I'm going to get but I suppose I could accept #2 or 3 out of 15."