[azureblue]

You have to get over the other group...plain and simple. They didn't invite you back and you will never know the reason why.

You are looking at emotion, not logic. Emotionally, you are upset/hurt/wonder/going over every detail to find out why you weren't asked back. You are torturing yourself by going over and over the outcome. Logically, that other group isn't an option and you have to accept it and move forward. You have been invited to join a great group of women, and that is that.

Bottom line...it's over with the other group...the ship has sailed. You have to stop beating yourself up for something that can't be changed.