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Originally Posted by love2read
I sent Lucy a text this morning asking how yesterday went and how she was feeling. She said she was feeling better but that she didn't "click" (her words) with "some" of the girls.
I encouraged her to give it 3-4 weeks (as she needs to ride the wave of disappointment as everyone has mentioned). I also reminded her that SK saw something special in her. I told her that things happen for reasons and she is meant to be an SK.
As I left my phone sitting in my A&P class/lab room, I'm not sure if she responded to my text or not. I have to go back and pick it up from security (thank god they found it).
She is in the bid day picture that clemsongirl posted in the bid day pictures thread. She is smiling in the picture too.
thetygerlily- your pregnancy example is the best! I might have to use that example to her or any other PNM.
etadrisophila- I want this thread to be real. Real life isn't always puppies and rainbows. We have TONS of threads where the PNM gets her first choice and she is super happy. We also have threads where the PNM has gotten her second choice and is still happy. I can honestly say, I can count on 1 (maybe 2) hand(s) the amount of threads (that have been completed and the PNM didn't drop) where the PNM isn't happy with her bid. That is real life.
The reality is, Lucy like SK earlier in the week. She just needs to take her disappointment and remember what she liked about the chapter earlier in the week.
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Oh I understand that. I was concerned about there possibly being too much detail and identifiable information about Lucy - I didn't want her sisters & pledge sisters to be able to figure out who she is! I hope things are going well for Lucy - and you sure have been a wonderful source of inspiration and support for her.