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Originally Posted by ngsu
I hate our hand signs and I hate a particular word in our name and want to cringe every time I say the full name of the sorority I'm in.
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I don't think you're talking about my beloved Alpha Xi Delta, but our very unusual middle letter generally grabs women 1 of 2 ways - love it or hate it. But knowing what I do now about the meaning behind that particular letter, it kind of amazes me that no other sororities use it. I do have a guess about which sorority you're talking about (and by the way I have an idea about what school, so tread lightly). I love its colors and I'm sure that particular letter has very special and significant meaning. Besides, colors and letters make a ritual, not a sisterhood. You are foisting negative meaning and stigma where it doesn't exist to others.
My advice to you is suck it up. You are dealing with buyer's remorse and it will pass.