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All of our chapters value the SAME things - sisterhood, philanthropy, leadership, social enrichment and academics. The colors, symbols and ritual are the only real differences. I understand that you are upset...FFR can be extremely humbling and hard to understand.

I was the woman bawling on the lawn on Bid Day because I was so upset. I had a hard few months, but was committed to getting to know women in my new member class and older sisters. The more that I hung around, the more that I knew that I was in the right place. I love my sorority more every single day.

Did you go through FFR to be Greek or an XYZ? You owe it to yourself and the sisters who offered you a Bid to go all in with an open heart and open mind and give it a chance. Go talk to your New Member Coordinator or whoever it is working with new members. Or maybe someone that you connected with during FFR? There are people there to help with the transition...you just have to ask.