Tara,
My mom was less than thrilled when I let her know I was interested in sororities. There are still so many stereotypes floating around, and at first she thought that greek orgs were no more than "school sponsored drinking clubs" (which is SO far from the truth!). But, it was my decision, and if a sorority was what I needed to complete my college experience... she understood.
Your mom realizes that you're an adult now, and although she may not particularly endorse the idea of going greek, this is one of the first of many decisions you are going to be making in the years to come. Chances are, once you get into it, she will too, right along with you.
My mom laughed and cried with me throughout rush, and even printed out my GC rush story to show to her friends. She knows how much my sorority means to me, that I have made the best friends of my life. This past year it has been kind of like a support system, a home away from home. Since you're going to school so far away from home, maybe you should tell her you need something like that.
Is she worried about "social hour" cutting into study time?? We have to maintain a certain GPA in order to be in good standing with our chapter (I think that's pretty standard for ANY sorority... am I right, ladies?), and there are sisters from almost every major who are more than happy to help you if you're struggling in a particular area. It's a win-win situation, either way.
I hope things start looking up for yall. Don't be afraid to rush!!!
