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On many campuses, being a junior will severely limit your options. Other schools may be more open to upperclass women. A chapter that offered you a bid you rejected is highly unlikely to invite you past the first mandatory round, so i don't think that will be an issue. No need to send signals other than gracious kindness. Chapters that cut you as a sophomore are likely to cut you as a junior, unless your situation radically changed over the past year, ie, major awards, offices on campus, drastic personality or appearance overhaul.
Mutual selection is misleading. The sororities hold 50 cards in the deck. PNMs can only react and respond to the sororities' initiatives. The sorority that offered you a bid felt you were a good enough fit to offer lifetime sisterhood. You didn't feel you were a fit. So be it. Just know that may have been your shot.
Last edited by Katmandu; 08-26-2013 at 07:22 AM.
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