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Old 08-26-2013, 01:42 AM
ASTalumna06 ASTalumna06 is offline
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Originally Posted by befuddledperson View Post
I really want to join a sorority this year. I did recruitment last year and I know I got into a house that did not fit my personality AT ALL. So if I'm doing the recruitment process again, how do I show that sorority (and other sororities) that I'm not interested the first day of rush? I want to make the message clear to them and not get invited back for the rest of the week. I need advise/tips on how to do this. I will also be rushing as a junior this year. I really appreciate any advice!
What sdtennisgirl said.

There's probably a good chance that same chapter won't offer you a bid anyway (because why give you another bid just to have you drop again?), and you shouldn't "send signals" to any chapter. Just go, be polite, and put your best foot forward. You're a junior, and you've already gone through recruitment before and dropped the chapter you were a part of. This has probably already limited your chances of receiving a bid greatly. Why limit them any more?

If you want to be Greek, treat each chapter the same and accept whatever it is you get. And if you do receive a bid, try to fit into that chapter. Because after that, you'll pretty much be SOL on getting a bid anywhere else.
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