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Binks, if I'm wrong about your description then blow this entire post off!
Binks sees guy-guy sees Binks they watch each other and go out on a date-Hot and heavy...Binks moves in, guy and binks go at it every night for a month, guy gets tired of it and wants his space so in a kind way he says, LETS STILL BE FRIENDS......MAYBE IN THE FUTURE....
This may sound harsh, but I am amazed...James asked an excellent question about amount of time you dated
Well, we dated for a month. we saw each other once a day and i spent the night at his place evey night.
Did you just, move in? Did you even talk about it? Most people need a little breathing room and after one month (if I'm getting you right) it all seems a bit much and the guy was probably feeling smothered. He may have been feelig so guilty about what he wanted/needed to tell you, getting drunk was his way to find the courage........NOT GOOD, but the picture you're painting sounds like to much too soon.
, so i believed him. We ended up hooking up before i went home to get ready. That was one reason it was shitty. It made me feel like i was being used, wouldn't you?
You need to get a handle on your emotions. I think you can figure out the answer to your own question.
I'm really sorry if I'm missing something.
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