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Definitely go to pref you might be surprised. I also went to a large SEC school and I was cut by all of my "top" houses and reluctantly went to the three houses that had invited me back. Only one of the three I "thought" I could see myself in / quasi wanted.... imagine my shock (and delight) when one house that really had not even been on my radar completely moved me to tears on pref night. I had not clicked with any of the girls that had rushed me there, even the girl who prefed me I would be hard pressed to say we had something in common, but sitting there at pref night the house's sisterhood shone through- couple that along with the fact that almost 90% of the chapter personally came up to me and greeted me by name and seemed to not only really like me but genuinely were happy to see me and wanted me there, left me wondering how in the heck I could have overlooked them, and left me wondering how in the heck I ever thought I could have pledged anywhere else.... sometimes pref is a "game changer". Oh and while I never did "click" with a good number of the then actives, my pledge class was BEYOND AWESOME as were girls that I had never even met during rush... dynamics change, pledge classes vary, seniors graduate, new girls pledge, etc... its all a circle... there will always be girls you don't particularly love in ANY house and there will always be girls that will be your closest friends. give it a chance, you might be surprised.
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