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As someone who had to work very hard at being a good rusher (and often falling short), I would remind you that often, the sisters just as tired/hungry/nervous as the PNMs.
I was not a great rusher - I'm really outgoing, I can talk to a brick wall, but something about the construct of rush gave me horrendous social anxiety. I'm also someone with virtually no filter, so having to watch every word out of my mouth made me self-conscious.
Thankfully, with the exception of Prefs, no round went by without our rushees meeting several sisters - so if I didn't click, hopefully someone else would.
Now, if you needed someone to get up at 6AM and set up chairs, blow up several hundred balloons, cover the chapter room in glitter, sweep the front walk, etc. - I was your girl. I was great at manual labor. And once rush was over, I turned back into my normal charming self...
I tell you this in defense of all weak rushers, who are in reality, nice people just like you.
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