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Originally Posted by FreshmanPNM2013
This is skit round, where we were able to get a max of 12 houses. I got 8, meaning the other 8 dropped me. The only ones that I was really sad about were Neapolitan and Black Cherry. It hurt because both chapters seemed genuinely interested in me and now I realize that they were being completely fake. I feel like a poor judge of character.
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Please, please get this idea OUT OF YOUR PRETTY LITTLE HEAD! This is probably the furthest thing from the truth. They might have liked you very much. Unfortunately, they have to make cuts somewhere. There might have been other girls who were legacies, girls from the same high schools or summer camps, girls that members knew better, etc., that were simply ranked higher on their invitation list.
ETA: I see that you had recs to only 3 houses
That could have had a significantly negative impact on where you received invitations. Remember that recs & grades are often the first cuts to make because they are the easiest.
I bet that you are a perfectly good judge of character and they were not being fake at all. They simply cannot invite everyone that they like back to the next round.