[FuzzieAlum]

I don't believe "looks are everything." All I meant was that, from a picture, you build up a mental image of what a person looks like. I have three different ID badges of me sitting on my desk, and they all look like three different people. If you met me, based on any one of these pictures, you'd say, "Hm, she doesn't look quite like I expected."

Of course looks aren't anything. I don't know why we even need to go there. I didn't say they were. If anyone chooses their dates based only on what Playboy/Playgirl says is hot, they're pretty shallow. But people do pick their partners based on how attractive they are to them, and there is nothing wrong with that. Being attracted to them physically is the reason you are dating them instead of being their buddy. Why on earth would I date someone who I didn't want to kiss?