soclueless- another good thing to tell your daughter is that she should get to know the women in her dorm and in her classes that are in sororities. Let it be known that she wants to join a sorority. If a chapter is COBing, they will usually ask members if they know anyone that is interested. She should make it CLEAR that she wants to be in a chapter, and really reach out to get to know the sorority women around her. Additionally, if she can get great grades and be involved somehow, even if she can't COB this year, she can go through recruitment as a sophomore and still have a wonderfully full three years of membership
