....I hope you had a pre-nup *nods*
Well, other than counseling and etc..I would highly advise you talk to him about it extensively and even become separted if you feel emotionally distant from him. Also, I'd advise you to get some legal work on the incident, because since you did find out (and hopefully you have evidence) you could rule in the judges favor and get to get everything he owns (or at least a really nice chunk). Monetary aspects hit those guys the hardest *nods* Well, hope everything works out in your favor
