[honeychile]

Sister, you need to talk to someone in EO first. Explain your situation, especially the part forcing you to affiliate with any ADPi chapter. That is NOT part of the Alpha Delta Pi agenda. Could you be misreading it, that you may NOT affiliate with any other sorority? Or, if you returned to UofA, you needed to affiliate? Be ready to fax a copy of this agreement that you signed.

Then, talk to your Advisory Board. They're usually good people who will help you do what's best for you. Afterwards, you need to talk to your chapter's Executive Board.

It's not just your life anymore. You need to think of what your life looks like, returning to college after a lot of life changes - especially as a mother. What will happen to Stetson when you decide to go to a mixer? Or during Recruitment Week?

Most of all, you will always be a sister of Alpha Delta Pi! Please let us know what you've decided to do, and what part of ADPi you'll be involved in. Oh, and give our best to your future Black Diamond Beau!