Tara (and UCLA Girl and all PNMs who may be lurking out here!):
Please keep sharing your recruitment experiences with us here on GreekChat. It looks like Arkansas has a phenomenal greek system, I've been looking at their website this afternoon. (It's at
http://uagreeks.uark.edu/ if anyone is interested.)
We're all here to support and cheer you on during the experience. It sounds like you've got your head in the right place to make the best decisions for you during recruitment! Just keep your mind and heart open, trust yourself and have fun...and remember we're here to help.
Christin