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First, you didn't come across as whining, entitled or snobby to me. You came across as drained, confused and hurt. Allow yourself to feel those things, (away from your new sisters) then throw yourself into this new experience and see where it takes you. It's not easy to be a member of the smallest chapter on a big campus, but every chapter has issues, some of which are a lot uglier than size. They just aren't readily visible.
Nice, friendly and enthusiastic about wanting you as a sister goes along way in this world. Think of your membership as a lifetime experience. Read up on your chapter history and learn about your founders, ideals and creeds. if you want leadership experience, and want to make a difference, you are in exactly the right place. Wishing you all the best. Let us know how it is going.
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