[scgoldengirl]

Just my 2 cents 35 years after being initiated into a chapter that I just love. If I were given the same scenario in 2013, when it came time to sign off on that pref sheet, I would have put the smallest chapter as my #1 choice instead of the 2 larger ones that I actually listed. Why? Because these smaller chapters are so much easier to leave an imprint, to make a difference, etc. I know myself a lot better now and know that I function much better in smaller groups. Bigger sororities might be the desired chapters but the smaller ones aren't necessarily desperate or willing to take anyone. And it doesn't really matter how small or big the group is anyway. It's what you make of it. Trust me-some of the most miserable greek experiences were in top tier chapters. You have to be happy-no matter which house you choose. At the time, I was in the best sorority for me but everybody has different needs and goals.