Every one of us on this board can tell you stories about being "that girl' in "that chapter." I remember a girl who took a bid to a particular chapter and was loved all over campus for being Panhellenic president. I got to know her well; she was a great example of the type of girl who would have added much to any chapter that she was in. She chose the chapter no one else wanted, and improved it much. Importantly, not just her own sisters but girls in other chapters got to see that it was OK to see things differently.
I remember a girl who supposedly cried all through her pledge night because she got her second choice. She stayed in her chapter though, and was one of "those girls" -- the ones that somehow manage to do it all always.
My own best friend did not get her first choice. She was the type of girl that most chapters would want; but she stayed and enjoyed the full sorority experience. Congrats on your bid! You went there for preference night and ranked them, so you must have seen some potential for fitting in there. Enjoy your new chapter with girls that will love you for the person that you are.
