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Originally Posted by hithere112
What IS keeping me there is how nice all the girls are and that they really wanted me to be there, and sometimes girls do not get any houses back.
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This is what you need to focus on. They're nice. They want you. If you were trying to make a decision about wearing letters with a bunch of "entitled hos" (to quote DubaiSis) or not being in a sorority, then it would be completely different. These women are nice. That's at least half of the battle in finding your sorority home.
There are some wise words in this thread. Don't beat yourself up about your feelings. FWIW, I don't think you sound entitled or bratty. Recruitment is a trying and tough thing to go through. For the most part you can trust the system, but it's not a perfect one. Getting cut hurts. It really does, and anyone who says otherwise is just not being realistic... but these women are nice....and they DO want you.
Best of luck to you. Hang in there!