[irishpipes]

I'll be a little un-pc here myself. Try looking online at some other chapters of your sorority. I guarantee you are "top-tier" at some of the most prestigious greek systems in the country. One of the most sought-after chapters at OU struggles at OSU. Another struggles at Tulsa. One of the "lower-tier" chapters at OU is tops at UCO. Two upper-mid chapters at OSU closed at OU.

My point is, every sorority has chapters that aren't top-tier. EVERY SINGLE ONE. Maybe that doesn't help while you're in the collegiate bubble, but it is part of why so many of us on GC are more Panhellenic - we have graduated and realize that after college, most people don't care too much if you were an XYZ or an ABC.

If you truly dislike your experience, by all means, drop and move on to something more enjoyable. But since you seem to like the girls so far, remember the things that being in a sorority can offer - you will be able to participate in Sooner Scandals, Greek Week, Derby Days, gameday spreads at the chapter house, philanthropy events with your chapter and with other fraternities and sororities, going to convention, participating in recruitment as an active, etc. You'll buy a white dress for initiation like every other sorority woman at OU, you'll wear a beautiful badge, you'll have party t-shirts and favors from mixers.

What you experience will almost certainly be remarkably similar to what the girls in the top chapters experience. If hanging around with these girls is something you enjoy, don't let the tiers that other people created take that away from you. Best of luck and congratulations on your bid.