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First off, congratulations on your bid! I think you've hit it on the head. You've said that what is keeping you there is how nice all of the girls are and the fact that they wanted you. That is exactly what you should be looking for and I'm so happy for you that you've found it. I was afraid as I began reading that you were going to say that you received a bid but the girls were not friendly or welcoming and that the chapter was struggling. From what I hear, even the "best" chapters have issues within to include not having a strong bond among sisters. So, the best thing you can do now besides enjoying getting to know your new sisters is to see where you might fit in to help that chapter become stronger. You've certainly got a good foundation with a group of really nice girls. Get involved and enjoy every minute! If it makes you feel better, there are probably some girls who ended up with their first choice and are sometimes really unsure. Hang in there! Sounds like you were willing to give this house a chance because they saw something special in you. That's great advice for all PNM's who find themselves in this situation.
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