[Sciencewoman]

She'd probably even be saying that if she'd ended up in any of the three, because she'd never know anything different! All sororities have wonderful experiences to offer.

Last year, there were harsh cuts at my daughter's campus. Most girls experienced heavy cuts after the first and second rounds. Several of my daughter's hall mates were released right before Pref. For those who joined, all were happy with where they ended up. From what she's said, not being able to participate in Greek Life at all was much more difficult for those girls than being dropped by a favorite along the way. Dropping or being cut is a disappointment that lasted much longer than the temporary disappointment of not getting your favorite.

Two of her friends were especially upset when they had to go to the dorm housing lottery...while those who had joined were excited about moving into their sororities sophomore year.