[misscherrypie]

Thank you all. Y'all usually can figure out my confusion on these kinds of things, and make some rational sense of it all. :-)

I think that the fear we had was the idea of "stepping on others' toes", which is really neither here nor there. I can certainly understand how a PNM may think of our proposed policy (which we haven't actually used....yet.) as being interpreted as "We aren't sure you'd like us....so you should consider *name other orgs*."

We'll just remain clear with interested PNMs about what Beta Sigma Phi has to offer and see where things go from there. We've definitely met some wonderful young women recently through the expressed interest and I feel that ANY org would be oh-so-lucky to have ANY of them become members. :-)