My aunt and cousin are 2 peas in a pod (and they are Soror's, no less). Let's start with my aunt...she ALWAYS wants to run the show. She'll be all up in my mom's house telling HER what to do. And then will get mad when my mom or ANYONE for that matter, disagree's with her. She thinks she is the ONLY enlightened person in our family...and for what reason? I DUNNO! She is quick to dismiss someone who she feels is not on her level (ie: people who she grew up with and knew her when she had nappy hair and pre-braces). I could go on about this woman but
My cousin...wants to be in EVERYBODY'S business. I honestly believe she went to college to find a husband, get married, have a child, and have him buy her a 4-runner. and she expected me to do the same!!! She looks down on me because I'm independent and enjoying my life but is quick to roll out with me when I go out and says she'll never tell her hubby but she wishes she would have waited to get married

! She spoiled and quick to throw status in anyone's face.
I thought with us being Soror's we'd be closer but they've been like this for as long as I can remember. When it comes to family gatherings I either sit in the corner and read or chill with my Grandfather...cause he's actually kicked both of them out of his house