Hello Ms. Pineapple..from one mom to another, good luck to your daughter and to you..if you like wine, my best advice for you is to buy multiple bottles for that week
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It may not seem like it will be all that stressful for you right now,but trust me, that will change. Your daughter will most likely become invested in the process once she gets there, and she will want nothing more than to find her home.
My daughter's scenario was similar in that she wasn't a legacy and she really didn't plug into the idea of going through recruitment until she was accepted into college. She also didn't know many girls from her high school that were in sororities, which made the process a little more challenging, as she is at UT=super competitive. She did find a home and has been very, very happy and very involved, but it was a hell of a week.
She will most likely have a lot of ups and downs, but just try to keep her focused on the positives. Most importantly, stress to her the importance of keeping an open mind and not listen to the tent talk. I don't know what school she will be attending, but I can promise you that most SEC schools have very healthy greek systems and any of the chapters are stellar and can be a fit for almost any girl who is willing to keep an open mind.
Like others have said, read, read, read this site. Good Luck!!