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					Originally Posted by 33girl  P.S.  High school students shouldn't be going to college parties, period, unless they are accompanied by a family member or friend who never lets them out of their sight.   If I saw "randoms" who had tried to get into our parties going through rush, I would want them immediately cut...regardless of recs or anything else...it's just not their place. | 
	
 I don't understand if she is talking about regular college parties or pre-recruitment type parties.
I know that groups here have spring and summer parties that are specifically for pre-PNMs.  They are "unofficial" but they are how you break into the top groups.  If a PNM was invited and didn't attend, I can't imagine recruitment would go well for her.