Just to clarify- Is the rec writer for the sorority that your mom was a member of aware of your legacy connection? Different organizations will have different manners of identifying/confirming legacy relationships, but your rec writer will definitely need to know this information to ensure that the chapter becomes aware.
You mentioned south. My 2 cents would be that one rec is better than no recs. Two or three recs is better than one rec. However, one very well written rec by someone who knows you personally can suffice.
Do what you can. Continue to network and ask your current rec writers what they know about the school that you are attending. They may be able to point you to other alumnae.
Good luck!
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