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Old 07-05-2013, 12:08 AM
ASTalumna06 ASTalumna06 is offline
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Originally Posted by UVA17 View Post
I'm saying she should act whichever way makes her feel most comfortable among the people she's meeting.

As far as "acting black" or "acting white", it's not really acting at all if someone actually is black and white. Just call me pepe le peu
I don't want to completely derail this thread, but you saying all of this:

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Originally Posted by UVA17 View Post
Like me, you probably learned to act one way around your white friends and family and another way around your black friends and family. We're chameleons, right? lol Depending on how I wear my makeup and hair and how I dress, I look like either a black girl without a decent bootie and good hair or a white girl with a dark tan so naturally I'll emphasize the latter aspect of how I look. I don't feel that I'm turning my back on my heritage because I'm 1/2 of each.

The bottom line is, if you feel comfortable with yourself the girls you meet during rush will pick up on that. So just be yourself, of whichever version of yourself you feel like being that day and have a good time
.. makes it sound like she should "act more white" because the majority of NPC members are white. And what "acting white" or "acting black" means, I don't know.

She should just be herself. The end.
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