A man is sexy if he has the following
1. CONFIDENCE: A man who can approach me and be confident in what he has to offer me.
2. Intelligence
3. Career Oriented
4. Dancing skills
5. His smile & teeth
6. His walk
7. A BLACK MAN IN A SUIT **fanning myself** -- A brotha in a suit can just make my mind do some things.
8. His SMELL -- There was an Alpha who had this scent that made me go crazy. To this day, NO ONE quite compares to him.
9. Strong mind and body
10. His devotion to his family and friends and to God. Sweetest Diva is soooooo right about seeing a Black man pray and humble himself before God.