1. Intelligence. If you can't tell me the last book you read, we are going to have a problem.
2. CONFIDENCE. I love, love, love, love, LOVE a confident man. I like to see self-assurance in the way he walks, talks and behaves in a relationship.
3. Take-charge personality. Before I get clowned, please believe I will never be dominated, lol. But I like for my man to be able to take charge when necessary. Can you plan a date without my input if I ask you to? Indecision is a turn-off to me.
4. Eye contact. I gotta go with Soror Ideal on this one.. eye contact in (ahem) ANY situation is sexy and most appreciated.
5. Nice eyes and smile. I'm a sucker for bedroom eyes (see above, lol). And I love to see straight, white teeth. At LEAST have the white thing going on.
6. Spiritual. I love to see a black man pray.
::SHAMELESS PLUG::
haroldjohnson, I just had to shout you out since I see you go to UH... I go to Baylor.