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A chapter member may just ask because they are curious about who the main competition is. An inexperienced or unprepared preffer may just be trying to make conversation.
The problem is that it is tempting for the preffer to try to compare your chapter to "the-other-guy" chapter which might lead one to saying something snarky or negative about the other group when you should be focusing on highlighting the strengths of your chapter. (translation: It doesn't make your group look better - it makes sorority women look catty.)
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