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Originally Posted by AOII Angel
Which would be like asking the sun not to shine... 
ETA: if you list them, they will know anyway, so just be honest and say you are being open minded and looking for the group for you not the group that was right for you mom, grandma, sister, etc. |
I really like this way of saying it! I literally do not know a single girl in this chapter, so since there's no way to know if the chapter is right for me (and even if it is, I might not be right for them). I know that the aforementioned best friend got cut by several groups that compete for similar girls when she told them what chapter she was a legacy to, so I'll really try to emphasize that what was right for my mom at her campus might not be right for me at mine and that I want to look at all chapters instead of just one.
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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
Yes, you could just divulge that info. to your legacy chapter via a rec. and/or legacy intro. form. Of course, that would require either not telling alumnae writing recs. to other chapters for you that you are an ABD legacy, or asking them not to list it on your rec.
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My mom was convinced that her filling out the rec would mean that every chapter would somehow know what chapter I was a legacy to, so she was going to have one of her chapter sisters fill it out for me. It took a little convincing on my part to have her realize that a rec for one group won't go out to every other one
