[DubaiSis]

Number of chapters doesn't make a school competitive, and no, it's not somewhat competitive. It's full on competitive and you need to be ready. And even from this person who thinks recs should be eliminated, you will need them for each and every chapter if you want to be invited back. And now is the time. Actually, now is a little late, so I would start making phone calls literally today. That's not start thinking about it today and make a Facebook post tomorrow and on July 15th panic because nobody has stepped up out of the blue to help you.

Since you know some sorority women, they might be a resource to help you find recs. I wouldn't plan on them personally being able to write recs (some sororities allow collegiate recs, but I wouldn't plan on it) but maybe their Moms, friends' Moms, or someone else they know because of their current sorority affiliation. Start asking right away, be direct, VERY nice, appreciative, and don't nag. They may not want to help you but don't want to admit it. Or there might be other issues at play.

I think you're up to date on all the conversation suggestions, attire, etc. But continue to work on those things over the summer. And good luck!