My advice to you is to go ahead and give recruitment a try...remember you don't have to pledge if you decide it's not for you by the end of the week. Don't let the PNM's behaviors make your decision for you. You have to remember that the sisters in each sorority will be watching to see if the qualities found in those PNM's are ones they want in their sisterhood. They'll be able to see that you don't want to act fake and are looking for a true bond. And just as the sisters will be able to tell what you're looking for, you'll be able to look at each sorority and decide if the greek organization represents what you're looking to call your new home. Rush is hard because it goes by so fast and yes, girls may act fake, but in the end things just work out and you end up where you're supposed to be. Hang in there and give it a try...I think you'll find some great things about what greek life has to offer!
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